Oghenefejiro
Iworo, a female Urhobo cultural music dancer from Ugheli, Delta was
only nine years old in 1996 when she was abandoned by Esther, her
mother. Her reason for taking such drastic action against her child was
because the little girl was alleged to have belonged to the evil world
of witches and wizards.
Esther
claimed that she consulted a witch doctor in Ughelli who confirmed that
her daughter was a witch and was responsible for the hardship and
misfortunes she had encountered in life, including separation from her
husband.
The
witch doctor had taken the little girl to her shrine in Eku, tortured
her by using a sharp knife to inflict deep cuts on her cheeks. The blood
extracted from the deep cuts was then given to the girl to drink before
she allegedly confessed that she was a witch.
The
witch doctor then warned her mother that unless she disowned her
daughter, she would use her power as a witch to kill her. She therefore
advised her to take the girl to Badare Wegereva, her mother-in-law whom
she alleged to have initiated Oghenefejiro into witchcraft.
Esther
who believed what the witch doctor told her about her daughter was
angry with her. She, therefore, did not hesitate to take her to her
mother-in-law at the Ugheli market where she was trading, called her a
witch and left the girl with her. Badare was dumbfounded as she could
not understand why her daughter-in-law could publicly call her a witch
and even accuse her of initiating Oghenefejiro into the witchcraft
world.
Afraid
that the little girl could actually be a witch as her mother claimed,
Badare equally rejected her and took her to her maternal great grand
mother who was in her 80s. Although the aged woman accepted her great
grand daughter, she could not take care of her.
The
little girl had no option than to become a street urchin. She roamed
the streets begging for alms and later joined street kids who taught her
how to smoke cigarette and having illicit affairs with men. No matter
how Oghenefejiro tried to struggle for survival in life, the
stigmatisation and abandonment by her mother continued to haunt her.
However,
she later joined an Urhobo cultural dancing group but still lived a
wayward lifestyle. It was in the process that she was impregnated by
Dafe Iworo, a butcher from Ekakpame, Delta State who married her.
Already, Oghenefejiro has given birth to a baby boy.
Unknown
to Oghenefejiro’s mother, her decision to disown her own daughter 12
years ago had become a curse to her. Despite the fact that she left
Ughelli for Lagos in search of greener pastures, Esther who is a caterer
continued to have nightmares as she could not even fend for herself.
She,
therefore, decided to seek divine intervention by going to the
Synagogue Church of All Nations where T.B Joshua told her that she was
suffering from a generational curse because she accused her daughter
falsely of being a witch.
He
told her that the curse would continue to haunt her until she is
reunited with her daughter and begged her for forgiveness over the
stigmatisation she was subjected to because of the accusation.
He
also told her that the generational curse started from Micheal
Akatakpo, her 60 year-old father who was an idol worshipper. Esther
admitted that her father had similarly called her a wicth when she was
nine years old. She, therefore, had to travel to Ughelli with pastors
from the Synagogue Church of All Nations where they searched for her
daughter until she was found. She also brought her father to the church
where Joshua delivered them from the generational curse.
Joshua
said it has become common for some parents to abandon their children in
the streets over the allegation that they are witches. He wondered why a
mother should subject her own child to such a traumatic experience. “It
is rather unfortunate that a mother who carried a child in her womb for
nine months or more, laboured to bring her forth, would later
stigmatise the child as a witch and throw her away from her home into
the street,” he said.
Worried
by the trend, Stepping Stones, a UK registered charitable organisation
is working in conjunction with the Child Rights and Rehabilitation
Network, CRARN, to transform the lives of children who have been
stigmatised as witches and wizards.
Gary
Foxcroft, programme director, Stepping Stones Nigeria, said their aims
are to tackle the problems of ignorance and superstitious belief in
child-witchcraft as well as eradicate the torture of children
stigmatised as witches.
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